Dating more than 1 girl at a time...how is it done

[nctarheelfans]

So here's the situation.....you meet a great girl that you're attracted to, have a ton of fun with and see each other multiple times during the week. The boundaries have not been set that you're exclusive.

The discussion is had that you're not exclusive....do you continue to see other girls hoping to find one better or stick with what ya got hoping it becomes an exclusive relationship????? If ya see other girls, how do you let her know that you are without her flipping out and running for the hills????

 

[kingbill]

I'll get back to you later tonight when I have time...but be open and honest...never promise a woman something you can't deliver and she won't be disappointed.

Don't be afraid to say you are not exclusive but never throw it in there face, discretion and honesty

 

[t3a]

The discussion is had that you're not exclusive....

who initiated the discussion that you're not exclusive? If it was her, it means she is doing some other guy when she's not with you.

QFT

 

[nctarheelfans]

who initiated the discussion that you're not exclusive? If it was her, it means she is doing some other guy when she's not with you.

QFT

I initiated the discussion.....I don't really have a desire to date anyone else, but don't want to get caught holding my dick in my hand a month from now when she says....I think I found someone else......hno:

She's 25 and I'm 32.......thus I'm looking for someone who I can settle down with at some point in time...where she may be looking to play the field more than I am

 

[t3a]

where she may be looking to play the field more than I am

yes good point and if she is only 25 and you have told her you are not exclusive she will no doubt start playing the field if for some reason she wasnt already....


http://www.therxforum.com/showthread.php?t=530426

 

[nctarheelfans]

The other fact is why in the world would I dish out a couple hundy a weekend to have her turn around and do the same thing with someone else during the week????

 

[mlfp]

Women are the devil. FAL = Fuck And Leave.

Fuck 'em and leave 'em.

 

[PBR]

You're not thinking of attempting the "roommate switch" are you?

If so my advice to you is to pay your check, walk away and never mention this again.

No guy in history has ever successfully completed the roommate switch.

 

[DonMelchor]

Believe in your lies.

 

[BronxCheer+]

My suggestion is live your life at it's best, I've waited and have had others wait, when she is the ONE you will know it(don't know how to explian but u will feel it), maybe for now you have a really big crush on that girl and are worrying too much
I'm going out with an 18 year old( I'm 34) unbelievabley hot yet I try and not lose my mind cause I know I'll be holding my dick just remembering her, therefore I live it day by day and you know what, she's falling for me, you know why?
Cause I ain't showing her everything I would do for her

Just my two cents!! hope it works in any way

 

[PBR]

Hey wait a minute...I thought you were married.



http://www.therxforum.com/showthread.php?t=532330

 

[BronxCheer+]

3 times and divorced for the same reason

 

[rayray]

nothing wrong with trading in for a newer model from time to time. my 25 yr. old just left me about 2 months ago. we had been together for 6 yrs. and neither one of us were really ready to get married. still nowhere near getting over her and regret not making her happier. funny how things work out. i had all the freedom in the world to do whatever and she was cool with most of it. she is gone and now i dont feel like fuking with the bar scene and shit just yet..maybe after the superbowl. hah

 

[PBR]

3 times and divorced for the same reason

Not you, Megatron...I meant the thread starter.

In the thread I linked to he had questions about "the Mrs."

 

[BronxCheer+]

Not you, Megatron...I meant the thread starter.

In the thread I linked to he had questions about "the Mrs."

Ohhhh, thought u had understood i was married and talking about having affairs, playing rico suave!!

 

[cut-paste-hero]

Hey wait a minute...I thought you were married.



http://www.therxforum.com/showthread.php?t=532330

DAMN PBR, ON IT THIS A.M.

CAN'T GET ONE BY YOU..

 

[PBR]

Ohhhh, thought u had understood i was married and talking about having affairs, playing rico suave!!

hombre de damas

 

[PBR]

DAMN PBR, ON IT THIS A.M.

CAN'T GET ONE BY YOU..

That's right, Dog...Martin Brodeur got nuttin' on me today.

 

[BronxCheer+]

hombre de damas

good spanish there!!

 

[nctarheelfans]

if you're 'dating' her for over a month and aren't willing to at least pursue the relationship with her to whatever end and are still on the lookout and don't feel guilty for messing with another twat, seems pretty sad to me

Didn't say being on the lookout was what I was going to do. Why should I be exclusive if that's not necessarily what she's going to do?

I guess too many grey areas exist at this point in time.